Friday Poetry: First Love


Autumn really is the most romantic time of year. There is something about the golden leaves and the sudden need for wearing coats and scarves. My husband and I first started going out in Autumn. I remember walking home, wearing a garish pair of gumboots, to get ready for a Friday night date. All was right with the world, I felt.

So in the spirit of falling in love, and for anyone falling in love this Friday, here is John Clare’s poem.

First Love

John Clare

I ne’er was struck before that hour

With love so sudden and so sweet,

Her face it bloomed like a sweet flower

And stole my heart away complete.

My face turned pale as deadly pale,

My legs refused to walk away,

And when she looked, what could I ail?

My life and all seemed turned to clay.

And then my blood rushed to my face

And took my eyesight quite away,

The trees and bushes round the place

Seemed midnight at noonday.

I could not see a single thing,

Words from my eyes did start—

They spoke as chords do from the string,

And blood burnt round my heart.

Are flowers the winter’s choice?

Is love’s bed always snow?

She seemed to hear my silent voice,

Not love’s appeals to know.

I never saw so sweet a face

As that I stood before.

My heart has left its dwelling-place

And can return no more.


Saturday Movie: A Letter to Three Wives

A Letter to Three Wives (1949)

Your good friend has run away with your husband. What would you do?

This clever film centres around three wives who have been sent a letter by their friend. She tells them she has run off with one of their husbands. This friend, Addie Ross, neglects to say which husband.

We never see Addie, but from all the women say, we know she is beautiful and charming. Her friends dislike her immensely.

The three wives, off on a children’s’ picnic all day, are forced to reflect on their marriages, wondering if their husband could have left them.

How does it end? You’ll have to find out for yourself.

The stand out character in this film is Rita Phipps (played by Ann Sothern).  She is witty, down-to-earth, kind and has a terrible temper. Rita and her husband (Kirk Douglas) fight with great enthusiasm and somehow their relationship seems the most genuine and loving.

All the female characters are strong in this film. I love the scene where we see Linda Darnell’s first date with her husband. He is a very wealthy man and arrives outisde her home and beeps the horn. She coolly lets him wait  He beeps it again. Eventually he is forced to come inside and she makes him wait even more by finally going to get her handbag.

The 1940’s fashion is fabulous and so empowering. Perhaps I’m being nostalgic but these women, dressed in their gorgeous, perfectly fitted outfits seem so confident. Sometimes I think jeans and t shirts, while very comfortable, can make us so self-conscious and sloppy.

In A Letter to Three Wives  each wife must consider what could be driving their relationship apart and if there is enough happiness to keep them together. Outwardly they all blame Addie Ross for being the type of woman who would steal a husband however the movie delves into their memories. They suddenly face up to the conflicts and misunderstandings in their marriages and realise they have nothing to do with another woman.

The film seems to suggest that Addies malicious letter actually does them a favour.

This film can be bought for nearly nothing on Amazon or downloaded. As my younger, more techo savvy sister scoffingly says – “everyone downloads films these days. ”

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